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Answers to your questions about sexual orientation
and homosexuality from the American Psychological
Association:
What Is Sexual Orientation?
Sexual Orientation is an enduring emotional, romantic,
sexual or affectional attraction to another person. It
is easily distinguished from other components of
sexuality including biological sex, gender identity (the
psychological sense of being male or female) and the
social gender role (adherence to cultural norms for
feminine and masculine behavior).
Sexual orientation exists along a continuum that
ranges from exclusive homosexuality to exclusive
heterosexuality and includes various forms of
bisexuality. Bisexual persons can experience sexual,
emotional and affectional attraction to both their own
sex and the opposite sex. Persons with a homosexual
orientation are sometimes referred to as gay (both men
and women) or as lesbian (women only).
Sexual orientation is different from sexual behavior
because it refers to feelings and self-concept. Persons
may or may not express their sexual orientation in their
behaviors.
What Causes a Person To Have a
Particular Sexual Orientation?
There are numerous theories about
the origins of a person's sexual orientation; most
scientists today agree that sexual orientation is most
likely the result of a complex interaction of
environmental, cognitive and biological factors. In most
people, sexual orientation is shaped at an early age.
There is also considerable recent evidence to suggest
that biology, including genetic or inborn hormonal
factors, play a significant role in a person's
sexuality. In summary, it is important to recognize that
there are probably many reasons for a person's sexual
orientation and the reasons may be different for
different people.
Is Sexual Orientation a Choice?
No, human beings can not choose to be either gay or
straight. Sexual orientation emerges for most people in
early adolescence without any prior sexual experience.
Although we can choose whether to act on our feelings,
psychologists do not consider sexual orientation to be a
conscious choice that can be voluntarily changed.
Can Therapy Change Sexual Orientation?
No. Even though most homosexuals live successful, happy
lives, some homosexual or bisexual people may seek to
change their sexual orientation through therapy,
sometimes pressured by the influence of family members
or religious groups to try and do so. The reality is
that homosexuality is not an illness. It does not
require treatment and is not changeable.
However, not all gay, lesbian, and bisexual people
who seek assistance from a mental health professional
want to change their sexual orientation. Gay, lesbian,
and bisexual people may seek psychological help with the
coming out process or for strategies to deal with
prejudice, but most go into therapy for the same reasons
and life issues that bring straight people to mental
health professionals.
What About So-Called "Conversion
Therapies"?
Some therapists who undertake so-called conversion
therapy report that they have been able to change their
clients' sexual orientation from homosexual to
heterosexual. Close scrutiny of these reports however
show several factors that cast doubt on their claims.
For example, many of the claims come from organizations
with an ideological perspective which condemns
homosexuality. Furthermore, their claims are poorly
documented. For example, treatment outcome is not
followed and reported overtime as would be the standard
to test the validity of any mental health intervention.
The American Psychological Association is concerned
about such therapies and their potential harm to
patients. In 1997, the Association's Council of
Representatives passed a resolution reaffirming
psychology's opposition to homophobia in treatment and
spelling out a client's right to unbiased treatment and
self-determination. Any person who enters into therapy
to deal with issues of sexual orientation has a right to
expect that such therapy would take place in a
professionally neutral environment absent of any social
bias.
Is Homosexuality a Mental
Illness or Emotional Problem?
No. Psychologists, psychiatrists and other mental health
professionals agree that homosexuality is not an
illness, mental disorder or an emotional problem. Over
35 years of objective, well-designed scientific research
has shown that homosexuality, in and itself,is not
associated with mental disorders or emotional or social
problems. Homosexuality was once thought to be a mental
illness because mental health professionals and society
had biased information. In the past the studies of gay,
lesbian and bisexual people involved only those in
therapy, thus biasing the resulting conclusions. When
researchers examined data about these people who were
not in therapy, the idea that homosexuality was a mental
illness was quickly found to be untrue.
In 1973 the American Psychiatric Association
confirmed the importance of the new, better designed
research and removed homosexuality from the official
manual that lists mental and emotional disorders. Two
years later, the American Psychological Association
passed a resolution supporting the removal. For more
than 25 years, both associations have urged all mental
health professionals to help dispel the stigma of mental
illness that some people still associate with homosexual
orientation.
Can Lesbians, Gay Men, and
Bisexuals Be Good Parents?
Yes. Studies comparing groups of children raised by
homosexual and by heterosexual parents find no
developmental differences between the two groups of
children in four critical areas: their intelligence,
psychological adjustment, social adjustment, and
popularity with friends. It is also important to realize
that a parent's sexual orientation does not dictate his
or her children's.
Another myth about homosexuality is the mistaken
belief that gay men have more of a tendency than
heterosexual men to sexually molest children. There is
no evidence to suggest that homosexuals are more likely
than heterosexuals to molest children.
Why Do Some Gay Men, Lesbians
and Bisexuals Tell People About Their Sexual
Orientation?
Because sharing that aspect of themselves with others is
important to their mental health. In fact, the process
of identity development for lesbians, gay men and
bisexuals called "coming out", has been found to be
strongly related to psychological adjustment—the more
positive the gay, lesbian, or bisexual identity, the
better one's mental health and the higher one's
self-esteem.
Why Is the "Coming Out" Process
Difficult for Some Gay, Lesbian and Bisexual People?
For some gay and bisexual people the coming out process
is difficult, for others it is not. Often lesbian, gay
and bisexual people feel afraid, different, and alone
when they first realize that their sexual orientation is
different from the community norm. This is particularly
true for people becoming aware of their gay, lesbian, or
bisexual orientation as a child or adolescent, which is
not uncommon. And, depending on their families and where
they live, they may have to struggle against prejudice
and misinformation about homosexuality. Children and
adolescents may be particularly vulnerable to the
deleterious effects of bias and stereotypes. They may
also fear being rejected by family, friends,co-workers,
and religious institutions. Some gay people have to
worry about losing their jobs or being harassed at
school if their sexual orientation became well known.
Unfortunately, gay, lesbian and bisexual people are at a
higher risk for physical assault and violence than are
heterosexuals. Studies done in California in the mid
1990s showed that nearly one-fifth of all lesbians who
took part in the study and more than one-fourth of all
gay men who participated had been the victim of a hate
crime based on their sexual orientation. In another
California study of approximately 500 young adults, half
of all the young men participating in the study admitted
to some form of anti-gay aggression from name-calling to
physical violence.
What Can Be Done to Overcome the Prejudice and
Discrimination the Gay Men, Lesbians, and Bisexuals Experience?
Research has found that the people who have the most
positive attitudes toward gay men, lesbians and
bisexuals are those who say they know one or more gay,
lesbian or bisexual person well—often as a friend or
co-worker. For this reason, psychologists believe
negative attitudes toward gay people as a group are
prejudices that are not grounded in actual experiences
but are based on stereotypes and prejudice.
Furthermore, protection against violence and
discrimination is very important, just as it is for
other minority groups. Some states include violence
against an individual on the basis of his or her sexual
orientation as a "hate crime" and 10 U.S. states have
laws against discrimination on the basis of sexual
orientation.
Why is it Important for Society
to be Better Educated About Homosexuality?
Educating all people about sexual orientation and
homosexuality is likely to diminish anti-gay prejudice.
Accurate information about homosexuality is especially
important to young people who are first discovering and
seeking to understand their sexuality—whether
homosexual, bisexual, or heterosexual. Fears that access
to such information will make more people gay have no
validity—information about homosexuality does not make
someone gay or straight.
Are All Gay and Bisexual Men HIV
Infected?
No. This is a commonly held myth. In reality, the risk
of exposure to HIV is related to a person's behavior,
not their sexual orientation. What's important to
remember about HIV/AIDS is it is a preventable disease
through the use of safe sex practices and by not using
drugs.
Where Can I Find More
Information About Homosexuality?
Local LGBTQ Resources:
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